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我是個禪僧。對於「禪僧」，各位是怎麼樣的印象？是不是舉手投足優美、散發著沉靜的氛圍，總是帶著柔和的表情，面露微笑呢……
我認為禪僧會給人這樣的印象，根本原因只有一個。
不怕各位誤解，我就老實說了。
其實，禪僧都是「厚臉皮」的人。
不過，說到「厚臉皮」，首先可能會給人大剌剌地闖入他人心裡的沒神經的印象。然而，本書主題的「厚臉皮」，當然不是那樣。
為了生存而保有強大的心靈，這種態度的「根源」，就是「真正的厚臉皮」。
有不會被不愉快的事、難過的事擊潰的強度。
有處於窘境、艱難局勢，也不會屈服、沮喪的柔軟度。
有一時失意、惆悵，也能很快振奮起來的堅韌度。
有面對周遭批判自己的聲音，也能想「管他呢」的豁達。
換言之，強大的心、柔軟的心、堅韌的心，以及豁達的心，都可以說是在「厚臉皮」這塊土壤上孕育出來的。
被這本書的書名吸引，而拿起這本書的人，或許會有以下的自覺：
‧為了一點小事東想西想、煩惱不已。
‧別人說的話比自己的想法更有影響力。
‧有事卡在心裡，就一直無法從那裡走出來。
‧非常在意周遭人對自己的看法。
‧害怕受傷害，不敢說出心裡話。
像這樣，對事情的反應太過神經質、總為小事情煩惱的你們，要知道修行前的禪僧，其實也是這樣。在進入禪寺拜師之前，多的是這樣的禪僧。
我自己在修行期間，也因為害怕睡過頭，總是睡得滿身冒冷汗，一個小時醒來一次。
但是，現在無論搭電車或飛機，我都能馬上入睡，而且是熟睡。曾在某次實驗中，測出我的熟睡率為九九．八％。
也就是說，在禪的修行中，自然會在心中孕育出臉皮的厚度。禪原本就是行住坐臥＝人的基本動作，走路（行）、停止（住）、坐下（坐）、躺下（臥）等日常，皆是修行。所以，我認為正確的做法，並非刻意修行，而是在禪的生活中養成習慣。
所謂「禪的生活」，並不困難。說起來，就是用禪的思考去看事情、把禪的教義擺在心中去理解事情、在發言或行動時稍微帶點禪的意識。
本書匯集了對此有所助益的啟發。
全都是不論任何人都能在平常生活中實踐的事。
放心，一定能增加臉皮的厚度。只要重複閱讀，一點一點地表現出來，就能逐漸養成習慣。
「禪即行動」。各位，從任何著眼點做起都行，開始吧！
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1953年出生於神奈川縣橫濱市。為日本曹洞宗僧侶（日本古剎建功寺第18代住持）、庭園設計師、多摩美術大學環境設計學科教授。 透過以禪思想與日本傳統文化為基礎之「禪庭」創作活動，獲得日本以及世界各地高度評價，當代日本枯山水的主要人物。 藝術選獎文部大臣新人賞中，首次以庭園設計師身份獲獎。2005年自加拿大政府獲頒加拿大總督褒章（Meritorious Service
Medal），2006年獲得德國聯邦共和國功勞勳章功勞十字小級章。同年獲選為「News Week」日本版雜誌「世界上受尊敬的100位日本人」之一。主要作品為，加拿大東京大使館、CERULEAN TOWER東急酒店日本庭園等。 與草間彌生、野口勇等藝術家齊名，為日本當代景觀設計界三傑之一。
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